Blog
Welcome to my blog, where I share reflections on involuntary childlessness, identity, and the many ways we find meaning beyond motherhood. Here, I write openly about women’s wellbeing, inclusion, and the realities of living a life that doesn’t follow the expected path. My aim is to start honest conversations, challenge assumptions, and offer connection for anyone navigating life without children — by choice or by circumstance.
My first event
For those of you who can make it I will be having my first event since the publication of my book. I'll have books for sae and will be signing copies for those of who who had obtained one. Looking forward to seeing many of you there. How exciting!
My first customer review
I was so touched to see my first book review. Thank you Susana for taking the time to write this lovely review. The review reads.... "An emotional and touching portrayal of the journey taken by brave women in their pursuit of happiness when life doesn't work out as...
A beautiful testomony
Those griefy moments
I was invited to a christening party today, by a friend who was celebrating his first grandson. What a special time in his life. As I watched my friend proudly stand up and talk his grandson escaped his mothers arms to explore his surroundings and all I could do was...
My weekend in the spot light…
So I am now sitting here reflecting on my busy weekend. It started last Friday when I went up to Birmingham to film an interview for On the couch TV with Marcia M Spence. Check me out at around 32 seconds. I am looking forward to seeing the final cut. I will post more...
A Proud Moment!!!
My Interview for the Luton News
It was a surprise and a pleasure to be contacted by the Luton News newspaper post the publication of my book. My (our) story is finding it's voice. You can read the full interview...
It’s finally here!!!
After all the sweat, tears and hard work my book is finally here. Thank you for all your kind words and support on this wonderful journey. I hope you all enjoy the book as much as I enjoyed writing it. You can buy the soft back copy from...
Unwanted Advice
Last week I received a message via FB that read "Congratulations on your book. My advice is to take a career break, for 1 year and keep trying." My initial thought was to ask 'keep trying for what?' then it dawned on me what she was saying. After I got past my anger...
Fertility Fest 2016
Thanks to an invite from Jody Day I had the opportunity to attend Fertility Fest in London. It was the first time that I have come across such an event which took me on an emotional journey. The first talk I attended was named the 'The Infertility Experience' which...
The Quite House
I saw this great play at the fertility fest about a couple's struggle with IVF. I will blog about the fertility fest soon but for now here is a discount code for anyone who wants to go and see it. It really is a great play and will invoke a lot of emotions, you've got...
Who will speak for me?
On Friday I attended my friends' mothers' funeral. Her mother had a great life, raised 5 daughters and was an active member of her church that included setting up a charity sending clothes, food and donations back to her home country in Sierra Leone. Sitting in the...