About Yvonne

There are many questions that Yvonne gets asked on a daily basis but there was that one question that Yvonne dreaded the most. That question is probably the most commonly asked question of all time…, “Do you have children?” A few years ago Yvonne would have avoided answering this question, laughing it off with a joke but after processing her grief, she is now able to talk about the grief that engulfed her when she was diagnosed with ‘Unexplained Infertility’ in October 2014. Being left with the reality that she would not be a mum, Yvonne found Gateway Women, a support group for women who are childless by circumstance. During this time the idea for her book was conceived. Yvonne is the author of ‘Dreaming of a Life Unlived: Intimate Stories and Portraits of Women Without Children’ (2016). As a public speaker Yvonne has appeared on numerous radio and television programmes, including, ‘Woman’s Hour’ on BBC Radio 4, to talk about her experience of recovering from the devastating grief of involuntary childlessness.

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Yvonne is a graduate of Gateway Women (GW) year-long Plan B Mentorship programme and is a trained facilitator of the GW reignite weekend workshops. Jody Day (founder of Gateway Women) personally invited Yvonne to lead the Reignite weekends for women of colour having come to understand through many conversations together that there are unique aspects to the women of colour experience of childlessness that would be better served in a dedicated workshop. Yvonne is passionate about creating an inclusive space for black women and women of colour to openly talk about their childless journey and is the leading voice on the childless experience of WoC.

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Honouring the Childless: Mother’s Day Tribute

My tribute to those of us living with the loss of motherhood this mOthers Day. Click the image to my YouTube video.

My Guest blog for WCW: Finding True Love: A Guide To Romance… With Yourself!

I wrote a guest blog for World Childless Week where I reflect on finding love for yourself. I felt that on Valentines day with all it's promotions on celebrating relationships with other, it would be good to write about what self-love means for me and my journey...

You’re replying on your stick too much!!!

I went on a 9 ½ hour, 12.6-mile (round trip) hike to The Boiling Lake, a volcano-hydrothermal feature and the second-largest boiling lake in the world, located in southern Dominica. The terrain was harder than we expected. We had to climb muddy steep steps, weave our...

The Next Dawn, The Next Spring

There have been a number of amazing moments on my (childless) journey and this weekend was no exception. After speaking at Melanie Stidolph’s solo exhibition promoting her photo book 'Endless Reproduction' last October I was invited back to Cornwall to support Melanie...

Be SMALL!!!

It’s taken me a while to write this post after seeing the film Till a few weeks ago. It’s a film that brought deep anger, indescribable sorrow and, at times, uncontrollable tears in a matter of minutes. The depth as which I felt these feelings is something I’ve not...

BHM 2022 – Meet the Agojie Army

“To understand ourselves, we must revisit the steps of our ancestors” I saw The Woman King recently, after hearing about a black female army depicted in the film and along with knowing that Viola Davis was playing the lead role I just had to see it.   The Woman...

BHM 2022 – Ora Washington

“To understand ourselves, we must revisit the steps of our ancestors” If I said that there was a tennis player dominating her sport, consistently winning titles every year but one for 10 years taking 12 straight doubles titles in both single, doubles and mixed doubles...

BHM 2022 – Meet Annie Turnbo Malone

For someone who has spent endless hours as well as spending a lot of money on my numerous hairstyles I was excited to learn of the entrepreneur Annie Turnbo Malone. Annie was a millionaire black hair icon whose mansions were listed in The Green Book but, her legacy is...

Black History Month 2022 – Harriet Tubman

I included Harriet Tubman in my NOMO selection for BHM in 2021 and after watching the film Harriet, a biography movie starring Cynthia Erivo – if you’ve not met Cynthia do check her out, she’s a great actor with the most fabulous voice as featured in the proms at the...

Happy Birthday

Dreaming of the Life Unlived: Intimate Stories and Portraits of Women Without Children is 6 years old today, where has the time gone??? I remember when she was conceived. It was a beautiful Saturday afternoon in London, I was amongst my fellow GW...