Blog

Welcome to my blog, where I share reflections on involuntary childlessness, identity, and the many ways we find meaning beyond motherhood. Here, I write openly about women’s wellbeing, inclusion, and the realities of living a life that doesn’t follow the expected path. My aim is to start honest conversations, challenge assumptions, and offer connection for anyone navigating life without children — by choice or by circumstance.

The Phenomenal book tour

One of the things that I did find difficult to imagine was where my book would take me once it was published. It's been such a joy to see what has been happening since my book was finally born, the response has been great and now I am going to be a part of a book tour...

My skype interview with Catherine-Emmanuelle Delisle

I have just completed a skype interview with Catherine-Emmanuelle Delisle from Femme Sans Enfant. Catherine is a fellow Gateway Women based in Montreal, Canada who contacted me for the interview after hearing about my book. I was so touched that she took the time to...

Another book signing

Its been great hearing from my friends who have purchased a copy of my book. They have enjoyed reading the stories and are even have their favourite ones. Its so touching to see their reactions especially when they ask me to sign their copy too. What Joy!!!

Celebrating with Jody Day

My book had a play date yesterday at our quarterly GW workshop. Jody was the ever proud Aunty!!! Thanks Jody, without you and GW none of this would have been possible xxx

An interview with Kristin Neff

A fellow GW met and interviewed on of her heroine, Kirstin Neff, recently. The article titled 'How to be kind to yourself' provides a great insight into self compassion and being nicer to yourself, lets face it we could all do with being nicer to ourselves!!! You can...

My first event

For those of you who can make it I will be having my first event since the publication of my book. I'll have books for sae and will be signing copies for those of who who had obtained one. Looking forward to seeing many of you there. How exciting!

My first customer review

I was so touched to see my first book review. Thank you Susana for taking the time to write this lovely review. The review reads.... "An emotional and touching portrayal of the journey taken by brave women in their pursuit of happiness when life doesn't work out as...

Those griefy moments

I was invited to a christening party today, by a friend who was celebrating his first grandson. What a special time in his life. As I watched my friend proudly stand up and talk his grandson escaped his mothers arms to explore his surroundings and all I could do was...

My weekend in the spot light…

So I am now sitting here reflecting on my busy weekend. It started last Friday when I went up to Birmingham to film an interview for On the couch TV with Marcia M Spence. Check me out at around 32 seconds. I am looking forward to seeing the final cut. I will post more...