Changing the Narrative:
Empowering Women
Living Without Children
What began as personal grief over involuntary childlessness evolved into a driving force for change.
Today, I am an author, activist, and facilitator who champions the stories and identities of women who longed for motherhood but whose paths unfolded differently — raising awareness and understanding of their experiences, transforming deep loss into solidarity, and silence into spaces of connection, healing and belonging.
A little about me…
The question “Do you have children?” once filled me with dread. For years I laughed it off, hiding the pain that followed my diagnosis of unexplained infertility. Processing that grief changed everything — it led me to Gateway Women, a community for women who are childless by circumstance, and helped me find my voice.
From that healing came my first book, Dreaming of a Life Unlived: Stories and Portraits of Women Without Children — a collection born from love, truth, and the determination to make our experiences visible.
A Little About Me…
Today, I am an author, activist, speaker, and facilitator creating spaces where women who longed for motherhood — especially Black women and women of colour — can speak openly about loss, belonging, and identity. I’ve shared my story on BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour and numerous platforms, helping to change the narrative around the untold experiences of women living without children.
As a trained facilitator, psychodynamic therapist, and graduate of Gateway Women’s Plan B Mentorship Programme, I facilitate workshops, retreats, healing circles and conversations that transform silence into connection and grief into collective healing.
Recent Talks
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Blog
My Guest blog for WCW: Finding True Love: A Guide To Romance… With Yourself!
I wrote a guest blog for World Childless Week where I reflect on finding love for yourself. I felt that on Valentines day with all it's promotions on celebrating relationships with other, it would be good to write about what self-love means for me and my journey...
You’re replying on your stick too much!!!
I went on a 9 ½ hour, 12.6-mile (round trip) hike to The Boiling Lake, a volcano-hydrothermal feature and the second-largest boiling lake in the world, located in southern Dominica. The terrain was harder than we expected. We had to climb muddy steep steps, weave our...
The Next Dawn, The Next Spring
There have been a number of amazing moments on my (childless) journey and this weekend was no exception. After speaking at Melanie Stidolph’s solo exhibition promoting her photo book 'Endless Reproduction' last October I was invited back to Cornwall to support Melanie...